Monthly Archives: July 2014

The Revolution Is Life

Look, I really don’t believe that anyone can work for a revolution separate and distinct from [one’s] own personal happiness or love-needs. Such a person wouldn’t have any way of knowing the difference between what is true and what is … Continue reading

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Is Jealousy in Polyamory Caused by Too Much Individualism?

So my partner Gail brought this Salon article to my attention. The author is positing that the reason she and her two male partners don’t experience jealousy is because they’re so tightly knit. She goes on to equate a lot … Continue reading

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The Mind Silencing Reminders Are Working

“Who is listening?” …is the message that pops up on my phone randomly 7-9 times a day. When it does, I read it and watch my mind. When an answer or another thought comes up, I ask “to whom does … Continue reading

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Probably the Best Relationship Article Ever

This article on Mindful Elephant about Soul Essence Relationships is probably the single best article on romance I’ve ever read in 20+ years of making it a core area of study. There are four major areas where more understanding can … Continue reading

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Scientific Mindfulness and Stopping Your Mental Hamster Wheel

I’ve had some of the most profound, joyful, and stress-free experiences in my life when I’ve gotten the constant chatter of my thoughts to stop. The first book that got me there was The Power of Now. However, I’ve found … Continue reading

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